Helping Kids Have a Healthy Body Image Starts at Home

[ 0 ] February 5, 2013 |

I welcome new contributor Kristie Stark, founder of Sprouts – Growing Health and Happiness. She is also a mother of three children who is exploring ways to make mealtimes at home more sane, tasty and nutritious. Sprouts was launched in spring of 2012 as a pilot nutrition program in preschool and elementary school settings. The vision for Sprouts is to connect children and families with food resources and tools they can use to grow health and happiness in their lives. – Anisa

Well, it’s the new year, it’s the time when everyone is trying to lose weight. We start new diets. We go back to the gym.It’s a time for new goals and fresh beginnings.

But haven’t we been here before? Ate too much over the holidays? Gained a few pounds? Maybe we are on this not-so merry-go-round because we are trying to lose weight for all the wrong reasons. Have we been seeking an impossible, idealized body image? Imposing unsustainable diets? And, how are our struggles impacting our kids when they see us chasing fad diets and, well, loathing our own appearance?

As adults we struggle – I struggle. And having three kids has forced me to look more closely at how I see myself and my health and how I could spare my own kids.

Beyond them, we have a nation of obese children to consider. According to the CDC, childhood obesity has almost tripled since 1980. This puts American kids at a higher risk of diabetes, cardiovascular disease and asthma – not to mention social discrimination. There was a story in the New York Times years ago that said for the first time in two centuries, children in America have a lower life expectancy than their parents. It cited childhood obesity taking off as much as 5 years off their lives.

What if we could save one child from the years of misery and abuse we have put ourselves through? What if we can find ways to help our children be happier with whom they are, rather than focusing too much on what they look like?

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To get off the weight loss cycle of one step forward, two steps back, we need to focus on truly important life goals – health, happiness and setting positive examples for our ourselves and our families.

Nutrition and exercise should not be an annual intervention, but a part of our everyday life. Maybe if we were focusing on goals that are truly meaningful to ourselves, we’d be more successful. What if we cared – really cared – more about being happy and healthy? It sounds like a dream!

Well, I don’t know about you, but I’m going to try to guard my kids from all the pain I have put myself though. In researching ways to help my children, I have come up with a few strategies that might help. Maybe the road to my own healthy body image can be found as I try to guide my kids.

1. Praise – Kids need praise!

Place value on their achievements, talents, skills and personality characteristics. Teach children about nutrition and how to make good food choices for themselves and praise their good decisions. Let them know they are more than their looks. Placing less emphasis on how kids look helps them value themselves in broader ways later in life.

2. Lead by example

The most influential role model in your child’s life is you. Eat and serve healthy food, don’t crash diet, accept your own body image, don’t judge others, and exercise yourself and with your family. If you are overly concerned about your own weight, your children will pick up on this and be concerned about their weight.

3. Take responsibility

Teach your kids to take responsibility for themselves, their eating, exercise and behavior. If you teach your children why it’s important to eat healthy food and how it can help their body grow and stay healthy, your child will be more willing to eat the healthy food you prepare them. Having your kids help to shop for and prepare food will expand the food they eat. It will also help them take on more responsibility around what they are eating.

choose-my-paleo-plate-pale-version-of-choose-my-plate-usda-obama4. Start a health plan

Enjoy healthy delicious food. The more you can cook at home, the more you and your kids will be eating healthy food. Follow the MyPlate guidelines. Make half your plate fruits and vegetables. That alone could change how healthy you are eating. Exercise regularly by yourself and with your family. Emphasize the importance of being healthy rather than losing weight or weight management.

5. Talk to them

If your kids are struggling with body image, you might share your own insecurities and how you dealt with them. Let them know that you understand. Have family dinners as often as possible. This is a great way to enjoy a home cooked healthy meal, talk about their day, and be together as a family.

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Kristie Stark is the founder of Sprouts – Growing Health and Happiness. Trained in fine arts and graphic design, Kristie runs Stark Group, a web and print design company. She is also a mother of three children who is exploring ways to make mealtimes at home more sane, tasty and nutritious. Sprouts was launched in spring of 2012 as a pilot nutrition program in preschool and elementary school settings. The vision for Sprouts is to connect children and families with food resources and tools they can use to grow health and happiness in their lives.

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