Comments on: High Tech Mama

By: amy

amy — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 14:14:13 +0000

Erin, I think if I were in your position, I’d get the fancy phone too! The challenge is making the technology–whatever it is–work for us, instead of the other way around.

By: Anisa

Anisa — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 02:07:38 +0000

Well said Erin. I think as get used to these new tech gadgets like smart phones that make our work easier we need to find balance and make rules about how we use these gadgets (especially in the presence of our kids) and remind ourselves that just because we can connect to everyone all the time does not mean we have to connect with everyone all the time. As always I love your honesty Erin.

By: erin goodman

erin goodman — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 02:01:16 +0000

i really appreciate all the different opinions expressed — and in true kidoinfo fashion, all done with such respect!! love it!

thanks for the info about cell-free cars, jen. very important!!

i definitely understand what people are saying about phones / gadgets taking us out of the present moment and creating unnecessary distractions.

but overall, i find that i am actually able to be more present with my family since moving to a smart phone.

as a mostly self-employed working parent, i am almost constantly thinking about work and what i need to do next — it’s just the nature of the beast (for me at least).

when i used to have to log on to our desktop computer to check e-mail it really took me out of the moment (and completely out of the room) with my family.

moving to a laptop helped so that i could do a few work things alongside my kids but still i felt a bit disconnected from what was going on in the room.

now that i can very easily and very quickly check e-mail / monitor my blog etc. from my phone wherever we are, i find that i am a lot more relaxed and able to focus on the present moment.

sounds a little wacky, i know. and it is still kind of crazy to me that i am advocating for anything technology-related, but it really is working very well for me!

all that being said, i know i (and others that i have talked to) have had to come up with my own way to ‘unplug’ — especially since moving to a smart phone. going to yoga and turning my phone off for two hours or purposely leaving it in the car while having lunch with a friend or enjoying a museum with my kids are essential for my sanity!

~erin

By: renee @ FIMBY

renee @ FIMBY — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 01:02:15 +0000

Well… I remain unconvinced. I tend to have a hard enough time being present without such technology. I think the temptation would be too great to resist if I had access to such fun and easy gadgetry. But I’m open to change. Only if I thought the benefits would outweigh the drawbacks. Right now I’m still on the fence about that. Definitely when my children are older and on the go without me I will use one to keep in touch and by then who knows what they will do!

By: Irene

Irene — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 20:08:55 +0000

I picked up my iPhone on Saturday night, and, as you probably already guessed (from my FB posts) — I LOVE IT!!! I’m not big on texting too much, but think Pandora is great, and checking my e-mail/FB/Twitter while away from home is a real convenience. I agree with you that taking pics or video and sharing them with friends is a real plus! I’m still learning the features and will be taking a workshop on Friday to get any questions answered at the Apple store. BTW — still have WP questions, so I’ll probably be texting ‘ya;-)

By: D

Tue, 20 Jul 2010 17:54:32 +0000

So I first read this article on my iPhone while laying in bed this morning. And as a geek, I’m dying to know which smart phone Erin is currently using, not for status reasons, but just curious which phone was worthy of upgrading from a basic phone.
Personally I’m using a Blackberry (for my day job) and an iPhone 4 (for everythign else), because I want a personal phone, not just a work phone and I love everything the iPhone can do (and I’m a long time Apple user/fan – staring with a Classic).

I’m glad to see all the comments now and I’m also actively trying not to use a phone while driving.

Last week I did have the opportunity to truly appreciate having a mobile phone when my car failed and I made 2 conference calls from the car then continued the tow truck while using chat with coworkers for the first half of the day until I got into an office. Made me wonder what I would have done before cell phones, maybe have more time to just think while taking a long walk along the road (although a co-worker did pull over to see if I needed a ride).

Bottom line, I’m loving my iPhone 4 for the high quality camera, video, email, chat, games, web access, and sometimes even to make phone calls – the calls haven’t been dropping for me. The Blackberry is just a simple tool (even though I know it can do more): phone, email chat, just for work.

By: amy

amy — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 17:37:49 +0000

It’s just for emergencies. I routinely forgot to even turn it on until my boys started school. I’ll check email or blogs on my husband’s phone first thing in the morning or before bed–it’s useful in case school is canceled, so I don’t have to turn on the computer to get the email, and I like to read blogs with my 2-minute bowl of cereal–but I deliberately did NOT want anything more. I’m always out with at least one kid, and when I’m out with my kids, I’m out with my kids, not stuck in a phone. I feel very strongly about that. Perhaps when they’re older, I’ll feel differently. But even still, on the off chance I get a few minutes at the playground, I’d rather knit than read blogs.

By: Jen S

Jen S — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 16:54:56 +0000

PLEASE DRIVE SAFELY – MAKE YOUR CAR A NO PHONE ZONE!
I love my phone and iTouch as well – but I think it’s important to include with an article like this that using cell phones while driving, especially smart phones and applications like texting and email, DISTRACTED DRIVING IS VERY DANGEROUS. Just talking on the phone while driving increases your likelihood of getting into an accident four times – the equivalent risk of drunk driving – and texting raises it far higher!

As parents, it is important to remember that not only do we have precious cargo in our cars – far more valuable than any phone call, text or photo we could send or read – and that when we are on the road we are guardians of other people’s children’s safety. And as our children’s guardians, we should take care of our own safety as well.

For more information distracted driving and on making your car a NO PHONE ZONE – you can go to:
http://www.oprah.com/packages/no-phone-zone.html

By: Marcia

Marcia — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 16:25:45 +0000

I still have the oversized plain black- cell phone and changed to pay as you go to save some money. I do miss chatting all morning with friends/family while my son plays in the dirt pile. Thankfully, FB is still free.

I’m waiting until 2019 to learn all the updated tech gadgets. “Watch out kids. You won’t be able to sneak past Mama in your teen years, even if it means paying more for a service plan.”

By: Tricia

Tricia — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 15:38:10 +0000

No iPhone yet, but I take pics and text with the lower tech phone I’ve got. I get very attached to my phones and I think it has more to do with the frustration I usually experience when trying to learn a new phone that keeps me so attached Still don’t know how to get a pic from my phone to FB and my ability to use FB is currently at “barely functional”. It’s funny I resist the changes in technology and find myself dragged along because I simply don’t want to be too behind the technology times…wonder what will happen when I’m not trying to keep up with my kids!